For many, the only way to deal with death is to make light of it. We tell jokes or else spend a fortune to try and maintain our youthful looks and vigor as if our hair dye or Viagra was fooling anybody. But no matter what, death comes to us all – some when they’re younger, some when they’re older. Even so, it so often seems like a surprise when death visits our household and for many of us, it’s the ultimate tragedy. This week: picking up the pieces when death comes calling.